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Books I’m Thankful For

I had an article come my way yesterday in which authors answered the question “What book are you most thankful for this year?”

It’ s a different question, I think, than “What is your favorite book?” or even “What is the best book you’ve read this year?” And it made me think.

Each author in that article had to choose one book, but I write this blog, so I get to write about however many I want. Which is good, because I read a large and varied collection of books, old and new, from a variety of genres. To skip to just the list, scroll down to the bottom.
I am thankful for books I can read aloud, to my kids, and any nearby adults. My kids are 8 and 10 now, and the 10 year old is suddenly too cool to listen to Mom read aloud. This year, I turned 42, and I decided it was time to reread The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy. It was the first time I was able to get him to sit down with me and his sister and listen to me read in MONTHS. I was also lucky enough to have a science-fiction loving friend who could recite large parts of the book from memory drop by every week to hear me read. It also allowed us to reach out to family– my aunt invited us over to watch the movie one night this summer, and that was a pretty neat experience. I don’t get to share enthusiasm over genre fiction with most of my family, and it was nice to have that opportunity.

I am thankful for books that come from people who really listen to me, both friends and family. My mom typically gets me books she thinks I ought to read, but she was listening to me when I was in a science museum in Louisville this past winter, and surprised me with Rosalind Franklin: The Dark Lady of DNA. I also apparently raved about Rainbow Rowell more than I thought I had: one day a copy of her (then) newest book, Landline, showed up in my mailbox, courtesy of my best friend.

I am thankful for the books that give me an escape, and also give me food for thought. This year, with the death of Sir Terry Pratchett, I started working my way through the Discworld books. Some are okay, some are good, and some are amazing: the best of them are both funny and serious. Going Postal is the one that stands out most to me at this point, although I haven’t read them all yet. I am also a huge fan of the character Tiffany Aching, and I am grateful as well that Pratchett’s last finished book, The Shepherd’s Crown, was a final Tiffany Aching novel, released this year.

I am thankful for books that strike a chord. Who knew that Isle of the Lost by Melissa de la Cruz would completely change my daughter’s perspective on princesses? And just a few weeks ago, I read Sahara Special by Esme Raji Codell with my daughter, and was struck by what a dead ringer she is for Sahara in so many ways. It has led to an entirely different way of seeking out books

I am thankful for the books that make me push my boundaries, and the people who make me want to try. I would never pick up a book like FUKUSHUU: Damaged Woman of Violence on my own, but Colleen Wanglund inspired me to try it. I’m glad that I had the opportunity to read Paul Tremblay’s A Head Full of Ghosts before it was released so I could recommend it to pretty much everyone in the world.

I am thankful for the books I find in libraries. The new books shelf in my library is where I found the memorable and terrifying novel The Book of Phoenix by Nnedi Okorofor and the creepily gothic Bellman & Black by Diane Setterfield. I also tried, and loved, the work of Seanan McGuire, especially Sparrow Hill Road. A wander through tThehe children’s books led me to discover The Cavendish Home for Boys and Girls by Claire Legrand. Just in case you thought children’s books were all light and cheery, I’m here to tell you that they are far from it, and this is one of the most disorienting and disturbing books I have read this year.

Oh, I could go on and on about the books I’ve had travel through my hands this year, that have been given to me, or shared, or recommended, or sent. I’m so grateful that I have the opportunity to have them come my way, and to share them with you. It’s a privilege to be able to read, to own and have access to books, and to be able to pass that love of reading on, and I thank you all for being a part of it. Here’s to another year of great books!

 

Books I’m Thankful For, 2015 Edition

 The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams

Rosalind Franklin: The Dark Lady of DNA by Brenda Maddox

Landline by Rainbow Rowell

Going Postal by Terry Pratchett

The Shepherd’s Crown by Terry Pratchett

Isle of the Lost by Melissa de la Cruz

Sahara Special by Esme Raji Codell

FUKUSHUU: Damaged Woman of Violence by Colleen Wanglund

A Head Full of Ghosts by Paul Tremblay

The Book of Phoenix by Nnedi Okorofor

Sparrow Hill Road by Seanan McGuire

The Cavendish Home for Boys and Girls by Claire Legrand

 

Banned Books Week: Children’s Books and the End of Innocence

 

Something I see a lot in arguments about whether kids should have access to a particular book is that, as parents and guardians of children, we want to protect their innocence. If you live in a middle class family that was relatively intact, in an area where everyone seemed to be pretty much like you, controlling your kids’ reading might help to preserve that innocence for a while, but if you take a closer look at the individual families there, what you see is that under the surface, children have already faced, or learned about, some pretty terrible things. Even at school, they’ve faced lockdown drills, practice for what to do if the school is invaded by a shooter. The terrible things we live among are so commonplace, and many of us are so numb to them, that it may be difficult for adults to realize how affected some of our kids really are.

I was in the library with my daughter, who is a huge fan of the 43 Old Cemetery Road books and was looking for something similar. The librarian kept making suggestions and asking questions: is this one too dark? Are you looking for something scary, or something funny, or both? I can’t remember what it was the librarian pulled off the shelf that I looked at and said “I think that one might be too dark and scary for her”. My daughter put her hands on her hips, looked at me with exasperation, and said “Mom, my dad died. Nothing is sadder or scarier than that”.  Okay, then. Keeping kids away from the media doesn’t preserve their innocence. Fiction is a safer place than fact. And let me tell you, there is a lot of scary stuff, and a lot of death, in children’s fiction. Even Little Women spends a lot of time on death.

Children’s writing has gotten a lot edgier today, so I can see where some of the discomfort comes from, but we are living in an uncomfortable world. It is a scary place. We can respect that our kids are dealing with a lot of the same things that make the world a scary place for us, and help them choose the reading material they want, or maybe even need, in hopes that even scary books will give them a space in their lives for hope.

If a kid doesn’t think he’s ready to read a scary book, there’s time yet. And certainly there are choices that need to be made about what’s developmentally appropriate: for instance, most Holocaust fiction is not recommended for elementary students (the one exception I can think of is The Devil’s Arithmetic) but if you take your kids to The Sound of Music, you are going to have to come up with a reasonable explanation of who the Nazis were. But that means having dialogue with your child about that, not making choices for him or others to protect his innocence. For a lot of kids, that innocence just isn’t there anymore. Taking books out of their hands can’t save that. Talking to kids about them can help a lot.

For a partial list of banned children’s books, from picture books through Young Adult, go here.

Banned Books Week: You Oughta Know

The materials that have been publicly challenged since last year’s Banned Books Week haven’t all involved passing laws or pulling books from the shelves (although there have been some pretty dramatic incidents) Many of the challenges have involved unfairness (or perceived unfairness). A recent incident involved students at Duke University who publicly refused to read Alison Bechdel’s Fun Home, an optional title on their summer reading list, stating that it was for moral reasons— it went against their religious beliefs. There are a lot of students who skip out of optional (and even required) reading, for a variety of reasons, but most of them aren’t writing about its immorality for the Washington Post. In the science fiction community, there was a lot of drama over the activities of the Sad Puppies, a group of writers who felt that traditional science fiction was being overwhelmed by diversity in both writers and writing, and challenged that by attempting to significantly influence the likelihood of winning a Hugo Award in favor of their own chosen candidates, with outrage on both sides (they failed). Another challenge involved a student at Crafton Hills College, who demonstrated outside the school along with her parents and friends when required to read Persepolis, Fun Home, Sandman Vol. 2, and Y: The Last Man Vol. 1 for an English class on graphic novels she had chosen out of fourteen options that would satisfy her graduation requirement. These three incidents all boil down to “I don’t want to read something new and different”.  But even if it’s not your own perspective, a willingness to be open to other perspectives, to listen to voices that aren’t your own, is important, because most people won’t always live in a world where everyone is just like them (except maybe the Stepford Wives). As Jessica Woodbury at BookRiot aptly puts it, “life is uncomfortable”.

I don’t often share it, but I follow censorship news outside the United States, too. And there are countries where the government really, truly, is a threat to freedom of expression. Internet access is extremely limited, there is no free press. People are fined, fired, expelled from the country, imprisoned, kidnapped, and even killed for their writing. In this interview with the exiled Uzbek writer Hamid Ismailov, he talks about how the editorial board of a magazine that published chapters from his book was punished. And writing doesn’t have to be deliberately political to attract the government’s negative attention. It is a luxury to be able to say “this makes me uncomfortable, I don’t want to read it”, and as Banned Books Week comes to an end, let’s celebrate that it is something that, in this country, we can recognize publicly at all. So to those who object to reading anything that’s not exactly in line with life as they know it, I ask that you try something new. You have the option to stretch your mind and see what’s beyond your own nose… and you ought to know.